I tend not to be attracted to blondes

when it somes to playtime, I find I really love brown skin women.
* Their nipples are a lovely darker brown.
* Their labia majora (outer lips) are a shade or 2 darker than their thighs.
* Their labia minora (inner lips) are a few shades darker still

It's like a bullseye with the concentric circles of shades.

It might have to do with growing up in SF.. Saw a LOT more folks of color than white folks.

Me, I often find myself being somehow unknowingly pushed towards fair-skinned ladies. Don't really know why. Something in the water I drank, I guess.

i tend to be attracted to the nerdy white guy. But generally speaking, a beautiful man IS a beautiful man, be he white, asian, black, or hispanic, or purple.

but i'm a sucker for moppy brown hair and glasses. White guys tend to be on the same brain waves, or whatever. but...in texas none of them seem to want to date me.

XXXclusive? Hehe...sounds like you're describing being loyal to only one porn company!

I understand that social availability thing. I've had a similar experience myself. Strangely, the women of color tended to date the white guys, so go figure. I don't have a preference either. :)

i've always been attracted to white guys =p
no idea why, but i particularly like blondes =p haha

my exboyfriend was the most gorgeous thing on earth =p tall, long blonde hair, blue eyes that made you go blind, and he was a complete metal head. i dont think i'll ever not be attracted to him


most of my friends when i was growing up were white, i got picked on by black kids because i was smart, so maybe i identified with them early on? no idea. part of it i know is just plain aesthetics.

Obviously the exterior is usually the first point of attention. However, if that's where you stop, or if you just "happen" to always or only find yourself in the company of ...., then you need to seriously re-evaluate yourself and admit what should be blatantly obvious. Don't make excuses about only being able to find --- please fill in the blank --- or, they "happen" to be interested in the same thinks that you are, please read the previous sentence. Be true to yourself because you are perhaps fooling no one but YOU! Still confused, get back at me and we can reason.

Peace

Why yes...yes I do. :) I like White guys. I grew up in predominately black/hispanic/samoan areas but I also listened to lots of heavy metal. Prior to that music I was/am a big time New Wave music fan (Duran Duran, Flock of Seagulls, the Cure anyone?) I've dated just about all races except black but I found my better relations sexually and emotionally were with the White dudes.

Especially if they happen to be kinda geeky, eclectic out of the box types who aren't afraid to try new things or date bi women. I'm quite geeky myself so I roll with that crowd better than others. :) If they have long hair with hairy chest holy Goddess mother, it is ON!

i've dated all over the map - i just like women who actually like me back.


*all over the map = white, black, japanese, korean, east indian, okinawan, spanish, mexican, puerto rican, dominican, filipina...all beautiful people. the white girls' parents ask "is he black?" every one else is "what are you?" or "what is he?" such fun conversations. i never knew it was such a big deal.